How to use the "Tell Me Your Interested" feature
Ok, so you think you've found someone you think you may be interested in. But your still not sure how all this works, well here is a step by step instruction guide to show you how it all works. Enjoy this free feature!
Step 1
Let's start here and assume you are on the persons profile that you are interested in, so click on the "Tell me your interested" button.
Step 2
Now the button will say, "Interest Sent" every time you visit that profile. However, they still do not know your are interested yet, because they have not clicked on the "Tell Me Your Interested" on your profile yet.
Step 3
Ok, they have decided to tell you they are interested in you! Now the button says, "We Have Mutual Interest". When they clicked on the button on your profile, they will also see this message change on the button to read "We Have Mutual Interest".
Step 4
Now when you go to your profile, you can click on "My Mutual Interest" and see all the people who have a mutual interest in you and the date of when they clicked that they were interested in you, however, this will only show up if you have also sent them an interest as well.
Benefits of using this feature in a Christian fellowship
As a Christian, we all enjoy being friends with everyone and enjoying just good Christian friends and fellowship with one another.
However sometimes when we truly become very interested in someone and you tell them, only to find out they only see you as a friend, some have no problem simply moving on as just good Christian friends. But some feel a little uncomfortable after their feelings are reveled and shy away from the once good Christian friend they had, so this feature helps out in trying to alleviate hurt feelings, and everyone can continue with just talking and having lots of friends.
With this feature, they will never know you are interested unless they are interested in you too!
Talk to them just as friends first and after talking and getting to feel like you know them fairly well, send them a interest at that time; then you will see if they feel the same way.
Just keep in mind that not everyone's personalities or likes and dislike are the same, so it is very common to meet several before you meet the one that blends well with you. Never allow this to cause you to feel rejected, bad about yourself or insecure. Just keep talking to people as friends and eventually the right one will come along!
And as always, pray that God will lead the right one into your life. You have to be equally yoked, which means both of you should be Christians and also with lot's of things in common before a relationship can blossom into a lasting one. Good luck and may God bless you with your soul mate someday!
(NOTICE: To date, there is no way of removing the "I'm Interested" once it is sent. However, you are the only one who can see your list and it remains private. If you change your mind and you are no longer interested; they still will never know your were interested in them unless they send you a "I'm Interested" too. So even if you did talk for awhile and it doesn't work out, you both will know and can move on as friends and both of your "My Mutual Interest" list will still remain private, as it will keep a recorded history of your interest.)
However sometimes when we truly become very interested in someone and you tell them, only to find out they only see you as a friend, some have no problem simply moving on as just good Christian friends. But some feel a little uncomfortable after their feelings are reveled and shy away from the once good Christian friend they had, so this feature helps out in trying to alleviate hurt feelings, and everyone can continue with just talking and having lots of friends.
With this feature, they will never know you are interested unless they are interested in you too!
Talk to them just as friends first and after talking and getting to feel like you know them fairly well, send them a interest at that time; then you will see if they feel the same way.
Just keep in mind that not everyone's personalities or likes and dislike are the same, so it is very common to meet several before you meet the one that blends well with you. Never allow this to cause you to feel rejected, bad about yourself or insecure. Just keep talking to people as friends and eventually the right one will come along!
And as always, pray that God will lead the right one into your life. You have to be equally yoked, which means both of you should be Christians and also with lot's of things in common before a relationship can blossom into a lasting one. Good luck and may God bless you with your soul mate someday!
(NOTICE: To date, there is no way of removing the "I'm Interested" once it is sent. However, you are the only one who can see your list and it remains private. If you change your mind and you are no longer interested; they still will never know your were interested in them unless they send you a "I'm Interested" too. So even if you did talk for awhile and it doesn't work out, you both will know and can move on as friends and both of your "My Mutual Interest" list will still remain private, as it will keep a recorded history of your interest.)
